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How To Set Limits on Your Children's Spending
We live in an instant society. With the microwave oven, cash machines, and the Internet, whatever we want is at our fingertips in a matter of seconds. Children have learned to want everything right away. Setting limits on your children's spending habits can curb the urge to be less than patient when it comes to money.
An allowance is one way to influence the spending habits of your children. Start as soon as they can understand about money; set up a weekly allowance for your children. It doesn't have to be much. The point of it all is to teach them to respect money and understand what it can do for them.
Money can also be given for jobs done around the house above and beyond their regular chores. Children are very creative. If they need to earn more money to buy a special item, they will propose almost anything to find the money.
Once you set an amount for the job, don't flounder. Some parents see how hard their kids are working and they either help them finish the job or pad their agreed upon price. Resist the urge to help them. They will learn the value of a dollar truly earned if you let them do it themselves.
Don't offer to pay for half. It is okay to make up the difference if they forget to account for tax and are short a few dollars. Coming to the rescue and offering to pay half encourages children to spend over their limits. If Mom and Dad are going to pay half for everything, then the kids will see their money as instantly doubled.
When parents don't have the money to purchase something, they have to wait until they have it. The sooner your children learn this fact the better. Managing their money at an early age gives them the skills to handle a pay check when they are old enough to get a job.
With money from birthdays, holidays, and allowances, your children will have a good deal of cash. Every time you leave the house they'll want visit the toy store or the video store. In advance, decide that shopping trips will be limited to once or twice a month. Choose the days and stick to it unless some unforeseen emergency crops up.
In that time, your child will save more money. They already know the rules of shopping, but they will still try to get you to change the deal. Waiting until the appointed time teaches patience. It takes patience to save money and also discipline. They are learning both at the same time.
It is easy to give in to those cute little faces and buy the kids whatever they want. But, this won't teach them to form good habits where money is concerned. When you set limits and schedules, stick to them.
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